Ok, as promised, here is a blog just for the men. I’m going to give you all the info you need with regards to “getting the girl”. I will tell you the things we like, the things we don’t like, what makes us tick and what you’re doing wrong. I realise I can’t speak for all women but I have had enough experience and seen enough to know the essentials. You think woman are really complex (and we are in some ways) but when it comes to relationships, we’re actually easily pleased. Now, I’m obviously talking about nice, genuine women here: not gold-diggers who just marry or want to marry for money, not swingers who want open relationships, not players who won’t ever settle down: I’m just talking about your average woman who’s looking for love (for all the right reasons) and who wants to settle down with the man of their dreams. I include myself in this as I AM an average woman (albeit slightly “unique” shall we say) and who, if I were to ever find the man of my dreams, would just want it to be real and true. I wouldn’t ever get into a relationship for any reason other than I had fallen for that person and it is ONLY personality that would make me fall for someone. Obviously fancying them physically helps but in all honesty, the more you love what’s on the inside, the more attractive the outside becomes anyway. So, while it’s great to also be physically attracted to someone, you need more than that to sustain or even want a relationship in the first place!!